Girl to Girl: Get Pregnant Before You Get Married (But Not How You Think)

Before you walk down the aisle, carry something greater than expectations—carry purpose, wisdom, confidence, and vision. In this powerful message to young women, Anutanwa Kosisochukwu redefines what it truly means to “get pregnant” before marriage. This is not about biology, but about birthing the life God intended for you—before becoming a wife.

Kosisochukwu Faith Anutanwa

7/30/20252 min read

A graduate stands on a grassy area facing a group of tall modern buildings on a clear day, wearing a black gown with a purple sash. The scene conveys a sense of accomplishment and anticipation.
A graduate stands on a grassy area facing a group of tall modern buildings on a clear day, wearing a black gown with a purple sash. The scene conveys a sense of accomplishment and anticipation.

👑 Get Pregnant Before You Get Married

🕊️ Inspired by the God of Armies Community
✍️ Delivered by: Anutanwa Kosisochukwu

Take a deep breath, sis—don’t look at me like that.

When I say “get pregnant,” I’m not talking about the biological conception of a child. I’m talking about carrying purpose, potential, and power within you—before marriage.

Before you wear that flowing white gown adorned with shiny stones and the aura of purity, please get pregnant with vision. Carry the future. Conceive the kind of life you want for yourself. Don’t walk blindly into a beautiful wedding only to discover you left your destiny behind.

Marriage is not the beginning of your life—it’s a chapter within it.

🔥 Get Pregnant With Purpose

Life after marriage is different. It may not be smooth or rosy. It may even feel rocky. But a woman who walks into marriage already carrying vision can reshape her destiny no matter what life throws at her.

“Where there is no vision, the people perish.” (Proverbs 29:18)

Don’t wait until you’re someone’s wife to realize who you are. Ask yourself:

  • What do I want in life?

  • Where do I see myself in 3–5 years?

  • What legacy do I want to pass on to my children?

Don’t be a Cinderella waiting to be found by a prince. Find YOU before he finds you. Self-discovery is your responsibility.

💰 Get Pregnant With Financial Wisdom

Be a woman who knows how to make, save, and grow money. Marriage should not reduce you to financial helplessness. Learn:

  • How to earn

  • How to invest

  • How to spend wisely

There’s nothing beautiful about being fully dependent on someone else for survival. Financial wisdom makes you an asset—not a liability.

🗣️ Get Pregnant With Confidence

Walk boldly. Speak with clarity. Don’t shrink.

Confidence is not disrespect. Express yourself without rudeness. Draw boundaries. Know what you can tolerate and what you cannot. Standards are not pride—they are evidence of worth.

Build yourself up to be intimidating in excellence, not intimidated by fear.

💎 Get Pregnant With Self-Worth

Enter marriage knowing your value. A woman who knows her worth doesn’t beg for love, attention, or validation.

Love starts from within. Validation flows from identity.
You attract what you believe about yourself.

🛠️ Get Pregnant With Skill

Find something to do. Learn something new. Build something of your own.

The Holy Scriptures say:

“A man (or woman) diligent in their work will stand before kings and not obscure men.” — Proverbs 22:29

The peace of a home increases when the woman is productive.
Idleness is the devil’s playground.

🎯 Be a Goal-Getter

Set priorities. Set goals. And walk with pride in your accomplishments. Every woman has power within—don’t let yours lie dormant. Stir it up.

🌸 Final Word: Don’t Be Afraid

Don’t be afraid to get pregnant before you get married
Pregnant with:

  • Vision

  • Financial wisdom

  • Confidence

  • Self-worth

  • Skills

  • Goals

Pregnant with purpose.

Marriage is not your identity. It is part of your journey—not your destination.

📌 INSPIRED BY: GOA COMMUNITY
✍️ DELIVERED BY: ANUTANWA KOSISOCHUKWU